The child is 15 years old this year,I love the child,can not bear the child suffering,want to find. someone to adopt,hope  theirchild  can live better,really is very let a person tear eyes,as expected the world's mother's love is the greatest. Wish every child can have a good end-result! Why would I want to adopt for my son?I'ma single mother of a bright,healthy son. In the early years,due to emotional disputes with the children's father,he divorced later. The divorce hit me so hard that had mental problems. Though my condition improved after  professional  treatment,I still had sequelae. Itis said that a single mother is the most difficult mother in the world. In these years,we have been living with each other. At the beginning,the  fatherofour  child could still pay alimony on time every month,but later the father refused to pay alimony for various reasons. At the beginning,we relied on subsidies from the  government ,but elderly parents,young son,expensive medical expenses and a lot of living expenses had to work again. However,due to the sequelae,I developed epilepsy symptoms after being  stimulated ,so my boss had no other way but to dismiss me. Repeated job hunting and constant dismissal,now I can find fewer and fewer jobs.

Although it is time to go to junior high school,but because of my children insist on taking care of me,so delayed to go to junior high school. Although junior middle school is a nine-year  compulsory  education,there is no tuition feel, but there is still an expensive material fee.I don't want to buy his talent for learning because of the  difficulty  of life and financial pressure.I often ask myself,how will he be able to pay for his tuition and living expenses when he needs to go to high school or college in a few years? When I think about this,I can't sleep at night, and I often blame myself for not giving my son a basic life,but gradually becoming a burden to his young son.

I also often feel angry,angry at the child that is not  responsible  father,so many years,no one cared about us,we mother and son are each other to support each other forward,each other to cheereach other up. Our mother and son have been living in the home of  grandparents ,although the family  sympathize  with our situation,and give great care,but under the pressure of life, mainly financial pressure,I gradually feel some  difficulties ,some can not go down.…

My child Huang Yu is a very smart and sensible child. He never laughed at me because of my  disability . nor felt inferior because of his family's  difficulties . He worked very hard,and  histeachers  often praised him for his diligence,saying that he had maturity beyond his age. He has a good  relationship  with his  classmates  at school and is ready to help others. He likes to help teachers and friends solve their  difficulties . After finishing the day's learning,he would help his mother with the housework. What he often said to his mother was"Mom,my son has grown up,so let me do these things". After hearing this, the mother had mixed feelings. Her son had to sweep the floor at the age of 8 and learn to cook at the age of 10,so that now he can almost undertake all the housework. She saw these heartfelt  heartaches .

However,he is still a child,and most of the time,he also has a childlike side. He will invite his  classmates  to play games at home. On weekends or holidays,he will play  basketball  and do sports with his friends,so that he is in good health. The child was also kind enough to stop at the stray cats and dogs by the road and give them half of his breakfast. When my child was young,I would let him eateven if he didn't have enough to eat I paid attention to  supplement  his nutrition when he was growing.I was afraid that he might catch cold at night,and almost didn't sleep and didn't let him catch a cold. What makes me most proud is that my son has good academic  performance  and strong learning ability. He has always been one of the top three students in the class. His subject is English,and his memory is very good. He also takes an active part in various school  activities .I can always see his  optimistic , confident and cheerful smiling face.

After serious,careful thinking and  preparation ,I decided to find a good family for the child,let them adopt him. What drives me to make this decision,I think,is the infinite maternal love in my heart for my child. It is because of love that I feel that I should not frame my child selfishly around me and make me a burden to him. Itis because of love that I feel it is more important to let go and let my children live a better life without worrying about whether they will have food to eat or warm clothes in winter. It is because of love that I choose to let my child have the right to receive better education and give full play to his learning talent. As long as her son can live a happy life,the mother is willing to do anything.Since giving the child to others for adoption is the most important decision in my life, I must find a family with good conditions for him. By chance, I learned about overseas adoption on TV. I saw that many American families choose to adopt children for a variety of reasons. In addition, the living conditions in the United States are generally excellent, the educational environment is world-class, various matters about adopting overseas children are also very mature, and the relevant procedures are more convenient.

With the idea, the most common problem is the language problem, but I believe that in children will not appear such a problem. My son is smart and intelligent, with strong learning ability and great learning talent. Chinese people start to learn English at an early age, and his English scores are very good, and his memory and expression skills are also very good. I believe that with the help of such a pure English language environment and his hardworking learning quality, he will be able to master English completely in a short period of time. The second common question about overseas adoption is adjustment, and I'm sure it won't bother the child. Because of our family, our environment is very difficult, so the child's adaptability is very strong, no matter how difficult conditions he will not say no. He is optimistic and cheerful. He likes making friends and is good at communicating with others. He is outgoing and can make new friends outside. He is kind and capable, and will not do anything bad, but can help the new family to do a lot of things, to inject vitality into the new family, I believe that the new parents will also like him.

Will this idea with my children and my family after communication, hope can reduce the burdens of her son, at the same time reduce the pressure of his grandparents, after all, we live for a long time in both mother and son grandparents home, both to increase economic pressure, and also bear the gossip of the neighbor, my child and I don't have the heart to make people inherit the pain. At first, my family disagreed, but later, because of my unstable condition, I did not want to cause trouble to my child, and I hoped that my child could have a better development and a better future, so I finally agreed with her plan.

The child grew up in a poor, fatherless environment, and the child is now so old, I can not continue to raise him, my son is all my life, but for now to find him a good family overseas adoption to receive good education is the best home. I have explained my own situation and the child's situation in detail, and sincerely look for an American family to adopt her child, take care of him and help him grow up instead of me.

Name: Huang Yu sex: male age: 15

Character:confident,smart, kind

Ability: strong learning ability

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